Lessons Learned

As I sit in deep thought from time to time; many things flood my mind. I would like to share one in particular.

The pain of relationships! There are so many paining people who are currently in or have been privy to very bad relationships. Many have had one bad experience after another. So many are crying for help; it seems like a never ending process!

This is what I have learned in life! Before I purchase any product, I conduct extensive research, validating it before allowing its access to my home.

As sad as it may sound, many relationships start out merely on how one look; people fail to get all the facts about their gaining lover. Before long the calls arrive from the other men or women (This addresses both man and woman), but all the drama could have been avoided if only we would have checked a little closer before allowing him or her home privileges.

To add a few other facts to the madness, most relationships fail because your gaining lover never properly disconnected from the previous relationship. In addition to that, many people out there cheat on their wives, husbands or significant other; what make you think they are going to be real with you? Just a thought!

Want a good relationship? Invest a little time and effort, don’t be sold by looks alone; this kind of behavior is like shopping for a vehicle, you’re drawn to it because it look good, but when you investigate a little closer, the engine is no good.

Ladies and gentlemen, its time for hard love decisions! Stop test driving; find the person that want to be with you, he or she is out there – stop running after someone who could care less about what your feelings are! This may hurt for a moment, but if processed, it could save your very life. Be blessed!